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A scammer is defined as a person who perpetrates a scam. They commit or participate in fraudulent schemes. They are very intelligent and have what it takes to lure you and get what they want from you. A scammer is also one who does everything in his/her power to steal from another, usually by means of trickery, deceit, and even force.

There are some people who have gone the extra mile in luring innocent women all in the name of love. Many women have blindly fallen for such men all because these women have the taste for pleasant and nice things. Most of the women who fall in the trap of these men (scammers) are women who are not vigilant in searching for potential husbands. As a single lady in search for a husband, you must be vigilant and stop looking for men of high standards and rather search for a God-fearing man instead.

Most of these tricky men are met on social media. They come on social media well dressed with expensive outfits, cars and other properties to make them look great in the eyes of women who are always looking for comfortable places to be. I always advice women that, the fact that a man is telling you he is ready to marry you doesn’t necessarily mean, you should be giving your money to the man. The cry of "he collected my money and promised to pay back or marry me" has become very rampant in our society.

I always see such messages in my inbox each and every day.

That is what these men do. They will lure you, take your money, even sleep with you and dump you. You need to take caution when dealing with a man who intends to have a future with you. The habit of "give me this amount of money, I will give it to you" shouldn’t be entertained unless maybe a necessary investigation has been undertaken.

We have something we call “Romance Scam”. A romance scam is a confident trick involving feigning romantic intentions towards a victim, gaining their affection and then using that goodwill to commit fraud. From this definition, you should always take note that, there are some men who can come into your life, give you strong assurance of loving you, making you see yourself as the most wonderful woman they have ever met and use that opportunity to dupe you of your money and eventaully vanish. Most of these men come to you as great men. They sometimes introduce themselves as Lawyers, Bankers, Businessmen, Doctors etc. They do this in order to win your mind and convince you mentally that, they have already made it in life and will never have anything to do with your money.

I am not saying Lawyers and other noble men cannot come into your life to propose to you or marry you but you should study them and make sure to see if what they are saying is true. One thing you should take note of is that, under no circumstance will a responsible man of any noble profession call you and be asking you for money.

Sometimes, these scammers will call you and make their case look real and affectionate. Since you don’t see where they are standing, they will even involve third parties to make the case much more believable.

Imagine such a man who has come to you in an expensive car and attire calling you that, he is somewhere and cannot get access to money and don’t want to involve friends and is pleading with you to send money to his sick mother at the hospital. You will send it because the channels involved will convince you not to suspect anything. Let me also remind you of your boyfriend who claims to be a businessman, calling you that, he is at the port and needs money to bring his goods out and that, when he comes home, he will pay you back, you will fall for it.

There are scammers everywhere even in love. Be very vigilant and sober in selecting a man for your future. Remember, all that glitters is not gold.

3Y3 ODO NKOAA!!!!!


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