This issue came to as a result of a similar problem I solved at Odo University. Quickly, I will share the problem here with you to help you get a clear understanding of what I am about to talk about.
This lady met a young man who proposed to her and it became marriage in the end. Right from the onset, the man told her he has a son who is staying with his baby mama (the mother of his son). This woman was fine with it. Now the issue is, the woman is doing her possible best to find out how her husband is taking care of the said son. The man's business went down and as a result, is finding it difficult to satisfy his wife totally in terms of finance. This is the reason why the woman is trying to find out if, after all this, her husband is taking care of his son or not. The man has never shown her where the boy lives but the woman is going around asking his family and friends to get access to the boy and his mother to ask if her husband is taking care of them.
I hope by now, you understand where am getting to? This is wrong on the part of the woman. Why should you go to the extent of finding out what your husband is doing outside the marriage? Your concern is to see to it that, he does what is right in your home. You shouldn't go outside for the purposes of investigating him. There are some men if you do that and they find out, you are doomed. They will never take it lightly with you. If you don't take care, it might even lead to divorce. Men hate to be investigated.
I will advise this woman and any other woman out there who might be doing same, to put a stop to this kind of activity if you want to enjoy your marriage.
Some women even go to the extent of searching for the ex of their husbands/boyfriends to find out why they broke up and other stuffs. What at all are you using that information for? That shouldn’t be a subject we should talk about at all. If there is anything you want to know, ask him. Stop going outside the relationship to attend to dead goats.
It is very funny how women try to figure out some facts about their husbands/boyfriends from their families and friends. No man will be happy if he hears about what you have been doing behind his back. He will never feel secured with you ever again and in the end, all trust will be lost.
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