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IS MY HUSBAND’S PHONE OFF LIMITS?



PROBLEM:

I came across this problem and I was wondering why some women won't concentrate on their marriage but instead would always be figuring out things that wouldn’t spice up the marriage. This young lady came with an allegation that her husband is cheating on her with a lot of women. I was shocked and was feeling pity for the woman but as I continued to read her post, I realized all her allegations were based on what she has been seeing on her husband’s phone. According to this woman, she has been spying on his husband's phone, and all his chats and text messages showed that, he is going out with numerous ladies. This has resulted in a lot of nagging from the lady to her husband which is making staying home unpleasant for the man.

SOLUTION:

I wonder why some women are still not learning how to make their marriages work but rather looking at stuffs that will jeopardize the marriage.

From this post, the first question I will ask is, WHY SHOULD YOU EVEN INSPECT YOUR HUSBAND’S PHONE? IS THAT A WAY OF GROWING YOUR MARRIAGE?

As I first said, I wonder. As a woman, what you should focus on, is making your marriage home conducive for your husband. Men go through a lot of stress when they go out and expect to come home to meet peace, not another stress.


Your husband’s phone is not your phone so there shouldn’t be any moment you will go through his phone looking to find unnecessary faults. The man you are accusing of having an affair is right there with you every night and you are there fighting him of having affairs on phone. Phone relationship is not a relationship and wives should learn how to address such a situation in case you come across one.


You have a lot of merits those ladies you are complaining about are not having. You are always with him. You are the one the family knows, so why should you be throwing stones on the pitch to distract the match? Be the Abigail woman who always approaches issues with sensitivity. Stop inspecting your husband's phone. It doesn't show respect or trust. If you are fond of spying on your husband's phone, you will find what you are looking for. There are better ways of winning your husband's love and attention rather than always bringing on board unnecessary allegations and nagging that will ruin everything you have taken your time to build.


THIS IS YOUR LOVE TEACHER, LOVE DOCTOR, LOVE INSPECTOR, AUNTIE ODO!!!!

3Y3 ODO NKOAAAA!!!!


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