For every child to grow and become a useful member of the society, the child needs the guidance and love of his/her parents. Children are the future leaders of every country and becoming the best leaders, can never be possible without the guidance of a good parent.
Most of the time when breakups or divorce come, the people who suffer most are the children. The question I ask myself is, where did the children go wrong?. Why should the children suffer for a sin they never committed. In this article, I will focus mainly on men. Men because they are the pivot when it comes to raising a child. Some men go with the attitude that, when they are done with a woman, automatically, they are done with the children as well which is neither here nor there. The children did nothing wrong to face that punishment. If you don’t love the woman again, the children shouldn’t suffer for it. You must show your children the necessary love and care as if you are still with their mother. Every child needs the care of a father.
Moreover, I haven't seen a well-doing marriage/relationship where the children go astray. It all starts when there is a breakup or divorce. So I always advise women to stay in their marriages/relationships because of their children. The future of the children is what is important. Don’t leave him when he is cheating or treating you wrong. You leave him to do what he is doing. He will change with time. He cannot cheat to the end. His time will expire. With the exception that, the man is abusing you or threatening to kill you. The children need the presence of a father. Children are not afraid of mothers. They are rather afraid of fathers. Children need the love of their father. The love alone shapes the future of the children.
Our men play a vital role in the life of our children. I respect men who are always there for their children. Men who run away from their responsibility always suffer in other areas of their lives. Your children need you whether the relationship is over or not. And also stop giving birth around with different women. If you give birth, take responsibility for it either than that, you do the children harm. Loving and caring for your children attracts the blessings of God. To eradicate social vices, we need to show our children love and guide them in becoming better people in the years to come.
IT IS ALL ABOUT LOVE !!!!!!
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